The Mom Life, What's in my head?

The World’s Okayest Mom

/ May 13, 2018

I’m not the perfect mom. I’m far from it and in fact, but I’ll agree to “The World’s Okayest Mom”. As I thought about Mother’s Day, it made me reflect on the mom in my life and being a mom.   The Stepmom Once upon a time, I was a kid. I lived with my divorced Dad who was the…

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Let’s Have Kids! It’ll be Fun!

/ May 2, 2018

Whenever my kids kick in to “Miserable Teen Mode” I can be heard muttering, “Let’s have kids! It’ll be fun!” I could be in a crowd of people saying this or sitting alone in my car. It doesn’t matter since it’s my way of coping with their crap. My teen daughters have a sweet side. They are often thoughtful and…

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Kindness. It’s Not So Simple

/ April 23, 2018

It’s a simple thing… Kindness. Right? No. Kindness is not so simple. But it’s one we need to work on and practice.     This subject is bothering the shit out of me. It has been building as I experienced some not-so-kind people and situations. The One that Kick it Off The last time I was in getting chemo, I…

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I Bid Adieu, to My Bag of Poo

/ April 8, 2018

I bid adieu, to my bag of poo, and all of the shit that goes with it. I’ve been waiting for this day, to write and post this! After three months of having my colostomy bag, I was able to bid adieu to it. It was a surgery I was looking forward to having! It was also quite the journey…

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My Off Days

/ March 9, 2018

So recently I’ve had a few friends ask me about my off days. What about them? We all have them! But they wanted to know about my off days with this crappy ass cancer journey. It actually made me think long and hard about how I want to approach this, and really, I wasn’t going to go here. Hold onto…

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At Least I Remembered Pants!

/ March 5, 2018

Let me serious about this… Chemo brain is kicking in guys and it’s a whole new world. I can’t remember crap and the new joke is “At least I remembered pants!” What can I say? I am a person who uses humor to get through difficult situations. Why is it difficult to have a foggy brain? I repeat myself like…

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